to which one?
FEMA is → cut wires (left / right has 2-2 lock has a GND so I just cut the one that locks) add a connector inbetween, so you can pull it apart and add your own connector. LEFT / RIGHT / LOCK + 2xGND
Danfoss I explaned under the 8320 topic: JD 8230 hydraulic steering - #27 by BGunics