Basically, you will need an Arduino and momentary switches, type (ON)-OFF-(ON). This is important: do not use switches that stay in position, because the code needs a short 5V signal, not a permanent signal.
You will also need 10k ohm pull-up resistors for the buttons, 220 ohm resistors for the LEDs, a relay module, and a 12V to 5V voltage regulator to power the relay module.